This I didn’t know, but you can take a personality test on the Internet. Sort of a mini Myers- Briggs test. The first test I took was a test by choosing colors. That said sex could solve some of my problems. I discarded that test. But I then took two different tests that came out saying I was a INFJ, which is apparently rare. An Intuitive, Introvert, Feeling, Judging person. I was a counselor, could be a writer, as writing is easier than talking. In a group I am on the perimeter, which puzzled me. If I am at a meeting, I know that is not true, but at a party, maybe. Further it said I wanted a few close friends, rather than a large circle of acquaintances.
When I read about myself, I was rather flabbergasted. Some of the material applied, a few seemed not to apply. But I also thought perhaps some facts could be filling in some of the missing pieces of my personality puzzle. I phoned my sister for her to deny the stated characteristics. Over the phone, I could tell she was laughing so hard that she was falling off her chair. She said, “Of course that is you, don’t you know that?”.
I said, “ I guess that is why I don’t have many friends, because I want them to come out and play on my terms.” . . . I am supposed to be a devoted parent.
If you are bored, or housebound, it has rained straight for three weeks, or need a little personality consulting, you might try this yourself. Just Google free psychological tests. Even the 2 minute color test had a few positive pointers.